The Comprehensive Coaching Path

If you are in a situation where you are not willing to take any chances with your recovery. Where you have made the commitment to not just end your current addiction--but to end all addiction in your life; to develop and sustain a values-based life, and to rebuild a healthy identity--then if you can afford it, this would be the path for you.

In a self-help recovery, your path is whatever you make it. If all goes perfectly, that would involve a three-month push through the workshop lessons and then whatever follow-up you are willing to construct. In a limited coaching path, the same three month push would be expected, but there would be more personalized guidance throughout the process and, a structured follow-up for six months beyond that time to support you through any lingering areas that need strengthening and to assist you with the inevitable obstacles that only appear on the other side of recovery. With comprehensive coaching, you are locking yourself in for the long haul. Rather than the typical three months to get through the workshop, two additional months are given because of the depth of the work we will be doing. Same lessons, but much deeper and more personalized application of them. Following the recovery workshop, there is a six month structure health monitoring program that will be supervised by CoachJon. Tacked on to this is a two-year monthly training/monitoring series that will challenge you to take what you learned and apply it not just to your past addiction, but to your evolving healthy life.

Comprehensive Coaching Features

• Comprehensive Screening and Assessment
  • These tools provide a comprehensive look at not only the presenting sexual compulsivity issues, but extend that evaluation into social competency, historical trauma, sexual deviancy, potential to victimize, consequence analysis, poly-addiction and much more
• Comprehensive Recovery Workshop
  • You will have every lesson response thoughtfully reviewed by Coach Jon, with comments and additional teaching offered as necessary
• Recovery Forum (for community-based feedback)
  • There is no difference between coaching and self-help here
• Private Forum (for personalized development/feedback)
  • To prioritize review and feedback, you will gain access to a private forum just for those in the coaching program
• Recovery Checklist
  • In coaching, we will be using this checklist to track progress and define weakness
• Recovery Manager
  • As a part of the accountability program, CoachJon will review your work in this area to ensure it is evolving (optional)
• Health Monitoring
  • Health monitoring is a three-step process, with each step having three progressive steps. The recovery workshop only introduces people to the concepts of health monitoring; the limited coaching path walks people through the first two steps. Comprehensive coaching walks you through the entire process--including an optional fourth step involving the integration of your partner into the monitoring process
• Audio Coaching Series
  • In coaching, you will be receiving more personalized and in-depth training. Still, the audio-coaching series is a great supplement for preparing yourself to complete workshop sections and for occasional review/refresher
• Crisis Management Coaching
  • If your relationship is in crisis and you need help in stabilizing the situation so that recovery (and healing) can occur; if you find yourself struggling with an intense urge, slip and/or relapse; if you find yourself having lost focus/motivation or have become significantly complacent in your recovery--as needed crisis coaching sessions will be scheduled with you, your partner and/or both of you
• Partner's Limited Coaching (optional)
  • When I work with an individual in comprehensive coaching, it cannot be done in secret. The changes that we make over the process of this transition are fundamental changes that will affect all areas of one's life. This includes a marriage/partnership. It is my preference to talk with each partner (though this is optional) early in the coaching process to explain to them what will be going on, what to look for (both healthy and unhealthy) and to answer any questions they may have about sexual addiction and/or sexual addiction recovery
• Comprehensive Live Coaching Series (twenty sessions over 12 months)
  • The first fourteen sessions are conducted within the first six months (at a pace to be determined by the workshop participant); the last six are conducted monthly upon completion of the recovery workshop
• Post-Recovery Monitoring/Training Series (for two years post-recovery)
  • Beginning with the end of the Recovery Workshop and continuing for two years, this monthly contact will offer optional lessons, exercises and advanced skill development long enough for a healthy life to have become ingrained permanently

Order the Comprehensive Coaching Package" ($699)

This personalized coaching package involves includes all of the sessions listed in the coaching agenda--as well as prioritized forum responses, professional accountability and addiction-related crisis-management. Sessions are scheduled at the pace you set. Once you have completed the prerequisites for that session, we will meet to personalize your understanding and development of the key insights. Additionally, we will work together to build and use the tools that are based on that session. This is an ideal option for those who are fully committed to completing the entire workshop--as it will allow you to make the most practical use of that effort in your transition to health. Additionally, this package involves up to a year of monthly monitoring to make sure that the changes that have taken place continue until ingrained.

Frequently Asked Questions About Personal Coaching

• What should I expect?

  Personal coaching involves you and Jon working together to rebuild YOUR life. In essence, you will be filtering your recovery through Jon's knowledge base to root out any and all obstacles to building a life without addiction. Live coaching sessions are conducted with respect and admiration for the person who has committed to ending their addiction. Typically, sessions are very personal and constructive--though an occasional 'kick in the ass' has been felt on occasion. The bottom line is spent on maintaining focus and progress towards health. Absolute honesty on your part is essential.

• When would I start?

  That depends on the package you select. If you are choosing the comprehensive coaching package, then you would start today, hopefully. The screening and assessment process will require several hours of your time and will need to be completed before our first live coaching session. You will also receive an email welcoming you and providing you with the coaching agenda, private links and the passwords you will need.

• What hours are coaching sessions available?

  I am very flexible with coaching hours. Being a night-owl, my typical work day goes from 10p-5am; and from 12p-3pm M-F. It would be easier to list what times I don't coach: M-F, I RARELY coach between 4a-11a (my sleep time) or from 5p-9p (my family time). Or, on Saturdays or Sundays at all (unless there is a crisis). This is my family time and I prioritize it above anything I do on the site. Beyond that, all times are open. Times listed as central standard time (GMT -6).

• What if I am not ready for my next session?

  You will be. Coaching is based on a 'go at your own pace' process. In your coaching agenda, you will see the objectives and prerequisites needed to be successful in that next coaching. Once you are ready, that is when you will schedule the appointment. Most appointments will be made for the following day.

• How do we engage in the live coaching?

  This is most frequently done over the phone. We use an Internet-based phone service (Skype) so that all of our calls remain toll free and thus, reduces the costs for all of us. Additionally, we will on occasion use Webinar to assist in live tool development, accountability and instruction. You will gain access to this service for free.

• I want personalized coaching, but I can't afford it...

  For a long time, we offered free coaching to those who were sincere in wanting to recover but who could not afford it. This is no longer practical--given the amount of people we work with. Instead, we now offer more affordable prices for those struggling financially. Additionally, we have rewritten the workshop so that more information is offered on a 'self-help' basis.