The Partner's Wworkshop is currently under renovation. Until this renovation is complete, feel free to use the workshop as it was originally developed.

Welcome to the partner's workshop. These lessons were created to help you regain a solid foundation for regaining control of your life in the wake of discovering a partner's sexually compulsive behavior. The following lessons should be completed in order. With each lesson, there are accompanying exercises that should be completed.

These exercises can be found here:

Partner's Workshop Exercises

The lessons can be found here:

Getting Started: Partner's Workshop Introduction

1. The Road Ahead
2. The Traumatic Discovery
3. The Traumatic Response
4. Inside the Sexualized Mind
5. Assessing the Damage
6. The Values Inventory
7. The Emotional Roller Coaster
8. Regaining Balance and Stability
9. Your Role in Their Recovery
10. Assessing Their Sincerity
11. Addiction Through Your Eyes
12. Addiction Through Their Eyes
13. Understanding Compulsive Behaviors I
14. Understanding Compulsive Behaviors II
15. Understanding Compulsive Behaviors III
16. The Role Addiction Plays
17. Developing Your Own Addiction
18. Retaking Control of Your Life
19. Developing a Support System
20. Coping With Depression
21. Experiencing Anger
22. The Blame Game
23. Forgiveness: Is It Essential?
24. Time Management 101
25. Effective Goal Management
26. Strengthening Your Value System
27. Identifying Your Boundaries
28. Developing Healthy Boundaries
29. Meaningful Communication
30. Shared Goals/Shared Values
31. When Values Collide
32. Healing Contracts
33. Codependency and Enabling
34. Embracing the Relationship's Change
35. Rebuilding Sexual Desire and Intimacy
36. Rebuilding Trust and Respect
37. Mourning Your Losses
38. Letting Go of Their Addiction
39. Life Beyond Addiction