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PostPosted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:57 pm 
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During this exercise I felt the closest I have to my wife in a while. It was like the guns were put down and we connected on a very basic level. She was very uncomfortable with the bath portion. My looking at porn has damaged her self esteem. Once we got past the comfort issue, there was an innocense about taking care of her in that way. It made me feel human I guess. ( And very glad I dont have to shave my legs!) My wife is a beautiful woman inside and out, but lately because of my actions the inside part is a lot harder to find. I guess knowing what she thinks of me makes me build walls too. And perhaps if we could feel like this more often we would have a chance. I guess over all this exercise made me see up close and in a very real way what I did to her self esteem. And that behind all the suspicion and accusations is a very damaged and scared woman. I guess I never really thought looking at porn was harmful... no real people involved. But the damage is very REAL, for both of us.


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